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Indulge Yourself with Lingerie

As women, we spend most of our waking hours serving others – our mates, our bosses, our children, and even our parents. On our mental checklist of priorities, our needs are all too often relegated to the bottom of the list. Over time, neglecting our own needs takes its toll, not only on us, but also on those we love. When our own proverbial well is empty, we have nothing left to give to others.

That’s why it’s important that you make a commitment to indulging yourself at least once a week. Carve out time to take a bubble bath, go on a nature walk, spend quiet time journaling, or going solo to a movie. Once you’ve gotten into the habit of a regular indulgence, expand your self-care to include buying yourself a special gift from time to time.

While there may be many items on your wish list, there’s a case to be made for indulging yourself with Lingerie. In the process of serving others, we often lose sight of our womanliness. Our femininity takes a back seat to the roles we play in our lives, and beautiful lingerie can help us reconnect with our feminine nature.

Although lingerie can certainly be sexy, giving yourself the gift of lingerie isn’t intended to be sexual. Whether or not you have a partner, wearing a beautiful bra and panty set can make you feel terrific. Having a supply of teddies doesn’t mean you have to parade around in them. Instead, wear teddies under a dress or blouse and feel the silky smoothness against your skin. Instead of wriggling into pantyhose every workday, switch to stockings and garters. Stockings are guaranteed to make you feel womanly. Others may wonder where your secret smile is coming from, but you don’t need to tell.

Remember that you don’t have to have a model’s body in order to enjoy lingerie. There are bustiers, teddies, stockings, and bra and panty sets made for plus size women. There’s no room in life for body shame, so enjoy your curves! Regardless of your size and shape, you’re entitled to indulge your feminine nature. We have wondrous opportunities to enjoy life’s bounty.

We have an obligation to ourselves and to those we love to reap both joyful moments and secret pleasures. When we do, we become more fulfilled and are better equipped to meet the demands placed on us by our families, friends, and coworkers.

Bonding With Your Partner – Without Candles, Wine Or Lingerie!

Question – “What are some of the easy ways in which husband and wife can bond – without candles and wine and expensive lingerie?”

Easy ways? Well, it depends on what you mean by easy!

Bonding has nothing to do with candles, wine and expensive lingerie. It has to do with INTENT. In any given moment we are in one of two possible intents:

The intent to have control over getting love and avoiding pain.

The intent to learn about being loving to ourselves and to others.

Virtually all of us have learned many ways of trying to have control over getting love and avoiding pain. We learned these protective behaviors when we were children, and as adults we unconsciously continue these learned controlling behaviors, such as anger, criticism, withdrawal, resistance, or compliance. For most people, these protective, controlling behaviors have become automatic and habitual. As soon as any fear is triggered, we automatically protect against the fear by arguing, blaming, attacking, judging, shutting down, resisting, or giving in. In relationships, the fears of rejection and engulfment – of losing the other or losing ourselves – generally underlie our protective behavior.

In a relationship, if one or both partners are closed, protected, controlling, then they cannot emotionally connect with each other. No matter how much time they spend together with candles, wine or expensive lingerie, the connection will not be there when one or both are closed and protected. Ironically, when the intent is to get love or avoid pain, what we create is a lack of love and much pain. Our intent to control brings about the very things we are trying to avoid with our controlling behavior.

Our own intent is the one thing we do have control over. We do not have control over another’s intent to be open and loving, but we do have control over our own intent to be open to learning about what it means to be loving ourselves and to others. However, it takes both people being in the intent to learn for partners to emotionally bond.

If both are open to learning, then they will be emotionally available to each other and can bond with a touch, a smile, or a kind word. Bonding has to do with the energy between them, not with anything external like candles, and the energy comes from their intent. A controlling intent creates a heavy, dark, hard, closed-hearted energy, while the open-to-learning intent creates a light, soft, open-hearted energy.

The big challenge in relationships is to stay open to learning about loving. Because we automatically and unconsciously revert to our protective, controlling behavior in the face of fear, being open to learning needs to be a conscious choice. Developing the ability to make a conscious choice regarding your intent is a learning process. The hallmark of higher consciousness is being able to choose your intent each and every moment, even in the face of fear.

When relationship partners are both able to reliably choose to be open to learning about loving themselves and each other, they create a sweet and safe environment for their love to flourish. Then candles, vacations, and lingerie can enhance their experience with each other – the icing on the cake.

Easy ways to bond? Staying conscious and open to learning is not easy! The concept is simple, but doing it is far from easy. Yet devoting yourself to learning to stay open to learning in the face of fear may be the most fulfilling and rewarding experience in your life!

10 Tips For Succeding In Dating!

Generally the most important step when dating someone is the anticipation moment which refers to your own decisions and also the prepairing for dating someone. And as the most important aspects are also the most difficult ones, people generally leave them aside or neglect them and this always proves to be harmful for a relationship.

This is the exact purpose of this article: to make people understand the importance of this first prepairing for dating and to propose some ways to turn it into something unbelievable:

1) The right state of mind
Turning to optimism can have a decisive effect for meeting your soulmate. A self-assured person, a confident one generally attracts many persons as these are qualities sought by everybody. Shyness and pesimism give the impression of a troubled person who is not willing to meet someone not to mention dating that person. That is why you should always give the sensation of a person who is eager to live new experiences.

2) Beware of your priorities
You should always be sure of what you want: just dating or meet your soulmate?This awareness or clarity in your thoughts preserves an equilibrium between hope and fear. Decide what you most want from a long-term relationship: look over the ones who are not to be changed and the ones which can be compromised.

3) Always preserve your values
Become aware of your values which cannot be changed by any means. If you will try to forget about them for the sake of the person you are dating, you will encounter lots of problems as you can’t escape your personality and thoughts for a relationship. Then see if the relationship can respect these values or not.

4) That’s me, alright!
What is it that you want? What are your needs? What makes you happy? What are your ideals and purposes in life? What are your strong and week points?What are your fears? You should always be very specific about your options and needs so that you can get help from the people who love you. Being specific and showing exactly what you want can become like a magnet for possible ‘candidates’ not only because of your tastes but also because of your preciseness.

5) Being a little selfish can be a wonderful thing!
Do what you want and what makes you happy. This means taking care of yourself and paying a lot of attention to your person. If you are happy you are prone to make the others happy too.

6) Don’t say no to your friends!
Don’t refuse help from your friends but first make sure that they are real friends, not the type who would stab you behind your back. You could recognize your true friends by their opinions which might not always be similar to yours but are intended to help you. Knowing thet you have reliable friends can help you a lot with your attitude.

7)The outside mirror technique
Others can become your outside mirror. You can see many reflections according to your state of mind and not only that – You can become aware of your flaws and acknowledge your qualities. You can also observe if you are capable of making people laugh or happy and in this, you can find other qualities. Awareness enables choice.

Forget about the past!
Forget about your past and especially your past relationships as they can do harm to your present relationship. Sometimes memories should be forgotten as they can ensnare people. Nothing can be changed from your past so there is no time for regrets or “what if’s”. It is always beneficial to start over.

9) Everything is so fascinating about you!
It is natural that you always remember about the life you had before dating. Maybe this is what attracted the person you are dating: your relationship with your friends, your commitment and passions. Don’t try to change or forget about your old habits. They characterize you and what makes you fascinating.

10) So this is it!
It is claimed that relationships are what shapes our personality: all kind of relationships and experience as well.

EROTIC MASSAGE WITH FLAVORED AND EDIBLE OILS

How does an erotic massage with flavored or edible oil sound? It sounds very sexy to me. Just think how your lover would feel if you set up an evening of massaging and erotic touching. I know it would be like heaven to me. Think about it, he/she comes home from a hard days work and you have everything set up in the bedroom ready to go. The next thing you know is you are pleasing your lover, relaxing them with this sexy massage, not to mention the fact the whole idea is turning you on at the same time. Massage has a powerful effect on people. A sexy massage can relax someone, in turn having a more enjoyable sex life. If I had a hard day at work and came home and found my lover had an evening of massaging planned, I would be more relaxed, at ease and enjoy sex all the more.

There are a few different massage oils you can choose from. There are flavored ones like, strawberry champagne, cherry, vanilla, kiwi pineapple and peach. Then there are sensually flavored massage oils with three tongue pleasing flavors such as, strawberry champagne, vanilla and peaches and cream. Choose the flavors your lover will like or you can try something new. The variety is out there. You can pick your favorite flavor or spice it up a little and try mixing two. You never know the new flavor could drive your lover wild. Again ,there is nothing more pleasing than a sensual massage. Try it, I know you will like it and enjoy it!