The Lingerie Blog

Since 1999, our sister company, Girlfriends Lingerie has become one of the top leading websites for sexy lingerie. Throughout the years we have had thousands writing us asking about adding adult toys. Acknowledging that we were doing a real injustice to our customers by not offering adult toys, we decided it is time to address this. A few years ago, we began construction of EroticNights4U.com and are now pleased to offer you, our loyal customers not only lingerie from our sister site, but adult toys right here at EN4U. As always we offer lightning fast shipping with 100% privacy and premium quality products. Our growing inventory here at EN4U includes only the top adult industry manufacturers such as Doc Johnson, Pipedream, California Exotics and more.

I am so happy that the warm weather is here, finally! After the winter which we just endured, it is like, so special to see the sun, the birds, the flowers, the green grass, and other elements of nature in their rebirth! Yes, it is more than welcome, it is appreciated!

This means time for swimsuits! I know that in the beginning of the season this can be a dreadful experience, it is like, Oh no, I am so white, so out of shape, sooooooo exposed! Ha! We have all been there, for sure. Yet, as the season wears on, we are sun kissed, in better shape, and far more confident, and we wear our favorite suits with feminine glory…

Finding that perfect suit is not always easy. Personally, I find that mail order, or ordering online, especially from Girlfriend’s Lingerie is the easiest, least painful experience there is. GFL has one of the finest swimwear collections of any I have seen, being foresighted enough to cater to every body type, personality, and mood of most women. And talk about quality! Wow! Style? Double Wow! So many gorgeous, flattering, sexy, and absolute perfect suits to choose from, so many. There are teeny bikinis, tankinis, and devastating one piece suits to choose from…

Myself, I have to have a lot of suits! I am a beach babe, and suits are like fashion statements to me. I have to have one for like sporty days, one for fun days, one for tanning, or two, one for those sexier, more romantic times, and one which will double as a top with shorts or a skirt. I love swimsuits, though, surely I feel those pangs of insecurity now and again. Ha! My favorite suit of all time was a brown one piece which had spaghetti straps, was cut high on the leg, and had a deep squared back. I wore that suit for so long and it never wore out. I played volleyball, swam with the lifeguards, jogged, walked, body surfed and you name it, that suit was present, and it wore and wore and wore. It was like my signature suit, you could spot it down the beach a few hundred yards and know it was me. Ha! I had my suits for tanning and special other occasions, but, that brown suit suited me perfectly, and to this day, that is my favorite ever. Now I see that Girlfriend’s Lingerie has almost the same suit, so, that will be my first purchase of suits this year. I can’t wait to see if it still thrills me with confidence and fit as did the last one of its kind!

Girlfriend’s Lingerie has SO many suits to choose from, each wonderfully designed, each unique, each exquisite material, color, style, and form, that I cannot make up my mind which other suits I will buy, but, I know that I will probably buy at least 3, for there are just so many which I might never see again, and, I know each will look and feel great!

Many people are apprehensive about buying online or mail order, well, I can tell you from my own personal experience that it is the best way to go. Besides the ease, selection, and other pluses, the fit is almost perfect. I have been ordering clothes, lingerie, suits and more for years, and have only had to return 3 items!

Last year I shopped all over town for a perfect suit for a large family gathering at a golf resort! I could not find anything! Most of the cuts were terrible, the materials were so-so, and the prices were way exaggerated! I had to settle for time ran out, and while the suit I found was gorgeous in the front, the back was hideously stupid, like my Mother or someone would wear; I had no choice, I ran out of time. I had to wear that suit around those 100 people or so, feeling less than attractive, but, I got so burnt in the first few hours playing water basketball, that I could not go out in the sun again for the entire 3 day weekend! Ha! Problem solved. Anyway, I can assure you that if you follow the sizing chart, you will be right on target, and, if you have any questions help is there for the asking…

Take a look, you will be amazed at the wonderful, thoughtful, and sizzling selection of swimwear at GFL. While you are there, take a look at all of the other exquisite stock of lingerie, clothing, and accessories, you will be convinced that this is your one stop lingerie and swimsuit shopping experience…

Couples should be sincerely good to each other. There should always be the element of the most honest kindness, through every moment of life. Why wouldn’t you be kind to the one you say you love? I find this very curious. I see couples who are supposedly so in love and one or the other is mean to the other, often without even thinking about their actions… I remember such a relationship with someone, and I always asked him why he was so nice to everyone else, but, when it came to me he was short, harsh, and rude. He told me that he was as nice to me as he was anyone else. Needless to say, our relationship went like the water of a flood..

When we live with someone and profess love, it would only seem right that they are the most important person in our lives, and that they should be held in high esteem. They should be treated as a best friend, a favored companion, a sexy partner. They should not have to bear being treated like an object, or as a possession, or as less than their worth…

This partly happens because people take each other for granted, which is never a good thing. Life is so unpredictable, you just never know what is around the corner, you never know when it will change dramatically, which
might mean that this one person could be all you have left, or even worse, that they might not be around. So, always consider that they ARE imperative to your life, else why are they there???

Love and love making should be an effort by both partners, that it is an ongoing investment in the relationship. It should be maintained, that it is exciting, hot, anticipated, embraced and cherished at all times. It should not live merely beneath the silk, it should over flow into your daily lives. You should each care that your partner is happy, satisfied, and smiling when they think of you, look at you, or touch you. There is no greater reward than to have a thriving, evolving, ever growing relationship with the person who at one time, you swore to love, and said you could not live without…

Kindness, respect, genuine sharing, caring, and consideration for each other at all times leads two to becoming ecstatic in love and life. Success in life, love and growth depends on our home lives to a great degree. Let me put it this way, when all is smooth and happy at home, it is much easier to progress in the world, for your mind, spirit, and body are free of tension, dissention, and wasted negativity.

When we are happy, we are more receptive to life and its elements, when we are more receptive, we are more open, when we are more open, the options before us are limitless. Our love, the one we chose to love, deserves the best of us, in all facets, and at all times. As we develop more and more in love, the successes in our lives multiply, as we compliment each others live more, we are filled with the rewards of having it all, and, as two become one, isn’t that the ultimate expectation of the experience???

Lingerie has a world of its own, filled with inviting, intriguing, and interesting designs and styles to enhance our lives, especially our love lives, although, that is not necessarily so, as, I, without or with a partner, still love to wear lingerie. I love the materials, the feel, the softness, the drama, the cut, style, design, and the intent behind lingerie. It makes me feel better all the way around, and, it makes the nights seem much more interesting…

There are so many lingerie manufactures, distributors, companies, stores, and other dealers, that it makes one wonder why there is still some embarrassment or secrecy about the love of lingerie. There are hundreds of thousands of lingerie styles, from soft and sexy to blatant and even violent. Each person has their own idea of what lingerie is, and, each has their own liking when it comes to style and design. Some like very feminine pieces, though many like leather and vinyl. It is one of the most individualist areas of attire ever…

Lingerie companies have expanded beyond lingerie, offering accessories, toys, enhancement products and much more. Each company has its own signature specialty, some cater to career women and men, some to the young, some to the kinky, some to the inhibited, some to role actors/actresses, some to undergarments, and so on, though most carry a bit more than they had originally decided to carry; which is necessary to keep up with the changing public and their tastes…

Lingerie parties, sex toy parties and/or lovers accessory parties, are becoming mainstream. Even some of the most conservative people in the world are attending or holding such parties. Sex sells? Sure it does, but, is that the underlying trend? I think that it is a matter of couples taking the responsibility to keep their relationships fresh and exciting; instead of losing one another to outside fantasies, they are making every effort to keep their passions hot and continuing, which is great news, for many aspects of life, and for the lingerie industry…

From Tupperware parties, to candle parties, and now to adult themed parties, the world has evolved, eh? I was talking to a lady the other day, and discovered that she loves adult themed parties, seems her and her girlfriends have them frequently. I was surprised as I had always viewed her as a huge conservative, but, I was pleased too, for I realized that hey, everyone is getting into the game of keeping romance alive and well, and, that is a good thing indeed…

Where I live, over a quarter of a million women in the past several years have taken stripping lessons from professional strippers, all in hopes of keeping their spouses at home instead of in the clubs. Strip clubs are extremely inhabited here, and, lots of women are at their wits end because of it, and so, one of the radio stations, which started as a sort of joke, got this learn to strip thing going, and wow!, it is so popular; so many women are signed up there is a huge waiting list. Mostly it is to learn pole dancing, but, they learn much more along the way. So, you see, there is effort ongoing to keep love and romance in the boundaries of the home, and, in doing so, there are some valuable lessons being learned, as well as some very pleasantly surprised partners seeing a side of their women which they never knew existed. That is what it is all about, going to the limits to keep love interesting, sensuous, and fulfilled