SO ARE YOU SEXY???
Are you sexy? Do you need someone to affirm your sexiness? Are you naturally sexy, or did you develop your sexuality? Do you care if you are sexy? Do you care if others view you as sexy? To what lengths would you go to be perceived as sexy?
Below are the most basic definitions of sexy. I say basic because sexiness is birthed from deep within and when it is developed it becomes more than definition could pay homage to. It takes on a force and life of its own, and, becomes an unconscious part of you, which means that you never have to think about it, it just is…
Arousing erotic desire: desirable.
Suggesting sexuality: sensual, sexual, suggestive, voluptuous.
Of, concerning, or promoting sexual love or desire: amatory, amorous, aphrodisiac, erotic, lascivious, salacious, sexual.Feeling or devoted to sexual love or desire: amative, amorous, concupiscent, erotic, lascivious, lecherous, lewd, libidinous, lustful, lusty, passionate, prurient.
Of the above descriptions of sexy, I am mostly lascivious. I say this because it has been said to me many times, and, while I did not realize what it meant, I can now see that it is true. I never set out to be sexy, I was simply given the advantage of having something within which grew into it. I never tried to develop it, it simply flowed from me. But, to be fair, I have lived a life which has had me surrounded by sexy people and lots of sexuality, so, perhaps, without realizing it, it rubbed off on me, I really don’t know, but, it is a great and empowering part of my character and being which I love…
Sexiness which is outward, is not always sexy. It might look good, but, it is like a thin golden egg shell which will shatter if tossed about, for it is hollow. So many people are outwardly sexy, and, while it serves its purpose, it cannot last for long, and, certainly will only last as long as it looks good…
Being sexy involves your personality, your mind, your heart, your soul, and, an uninhibited sense of adventure. It is knowledge of pleasure, passion, desire, and satisfying. It is knowing when, where, how, what, and why you are sexy, and, how much to be at any given time. Being sexy is a limitless supply of being desirable, enticing, and, mesmerizing without trying, it is a mysterious force, full of power and conviction. It is everything that a lover could expect and more. It is a rapture, it is a vision, it is a glimpse into paradise…
As you age, your sexiness becomes so much a part of you that you don’t know where it ends or begins. It becomes a part of your whole. For women, this is a wonderful thing to look forward to, for, it greatly enhances the aging process, if you allow it to. Sexiness should be looked upon as necessary to life, love, and, relationships. As it grows with time, it will spill over into your personality, and will be recognized by all, no matter if you are mowing the lawn, washing clothes, shopping or whatever, your sexiness will glow off you like the reflection of the moon on the Earth, and that is all good for many reasons…
