IT’S A MAN’S WORLD!?!

They say it’s a man’s world, but, if that is the case, why are women so spoiled by men? OK, I will let it rest at that, for men can have the world if they treat me well…

Men are so good to us, for the most part. They can romance us to where we are weak. They gift us more than we do them. They give us their attention, their admiration, their very lives, which they turn over to us once they have decided that we are the one…

Men have their quirks, their idiosyncrasies, and, their faults, no doubt, but, when they love a woman, they are like heroes, they are like gladiators, they are like Saks Fifth Avenue, they are loaded with resources to keep us happy, and, they will continue to do so, as long as we too, find ways to keep them happy, it seems a fair exchange to me…

Our resources work differently than a mans. We only need to provide certain factors for him to be swimming in love. He, on the other hand, strives to keep us in certain ways, such as buying us things, giving us a great place to live, a car, and, other such luxuries, which we might or might not have if he weren’t around, which has no point in this context, for we are discussing how he will find ways to make sure we are happy with him. Men are extremely resourceful at taking care of their women, though, too many women do not see this as is…

True, not all men can provide material luxuries to their women, however, they will in ways which they can. It might be something as simple as a favorite book, a CD, or certain things which he feels will make you happy, and, it might not seem like enough, but, truly, if a man cannot afford to gift you, but, finds small ways to do so, that is all the more endearing, at least to me…

Yes, they get their rewards for being good to us. They are taken care of from morning until night, they are cared for, they are treated like royalty, they have the privilege of seeing us at our best and our worst, they get to experience us in our ravishing lingerie, swimwear, and other sexy attire. They watch us dance, prance, and, come to life as if on the big screen. They enjoy our actions, our scents, our walk, our pouts, our tantrums, and our entire womanhood. Yes, they definitely get their rewards, but, the more they enjoy us, the more they spoil us, so, I have to say, love is a wonderful, wonderful state, and, if people would just realize that all is fair, all is balanced, all is good, in love, there would be less analysis and more adventurous enjoyment between lovers…

Bring it on! Spring and Summer, that is…

With the warmer months approaching, we will be shedding our winter layers for more and more breezy, silky, mesh, and satiny attire. Since lingerie materials do not cling or bind, they are perfect for hot nights, and, long weekend days…

There are so many styles to choose from; boy short sets, Cami sets, chemises, gowns, bra sets, baby dolls, and teddies, each of which are perfect for one time or another, each of which will enhance and air the heat of the season…

I do not care for constant cool air, instead I often run many fans, ceiling or otherwise, as we are couped up all winter, so, why should we be all of the warm season too? I like to wear floaty materials, or as little as possible, still seeking to be comfortable and sexy, so, lingerie allows me many options for this time of year, that which will make me look and feel like a vision on a Summer night…

We are in better shape in the warmer months, and boast a golden glow from the sun, which only makes lingerie all the more exciting. It is also a time of more energy, which means that we are more apt to activity, be it dancing, partying, or what have you, and, again, lingerie plays an important role in such…

There is nothing better than being hot, taking a refreshing shower, spraying with light body oils, and scents, putting on a wispy piece of lingerie, sitting in a fan cooled room, sipping on a cold beverage, and doing whatever the mood moves us to do. From head to feet we are groomed, for warm months call for this to be a constant, we have gone to lengths to look our best, our hair is sun kissed, our bodies are bronzed, and we are feeling sexy: all which add to the element of dreams coming true…

I have several lighting systems for hot nights, like dance balls, a 4 foot water light, lava lamps and other such, which take the place of hot candles. I like music even more in the Summer months, and, on any night you might find me dancing the night away, having fun, and probably driving my neighbors mad. Something releases in me over the warmer months, and I am much more free, more adventurous, more expressive, and, much more in the mood for fun and romance, and indeed, I take advantage of the whole nine yards…

It is also time for those midnight dips in the pool, and, while most will skinny dip, there is something to be said for beginning with a sexy piece of lingerie, for when wet, it clings just so to the curves, and the water droplets glisten like jewels, creating such perfect imagery for the passionate nature of our partner. Just be sure that the lingerie you wear can handle the chlorine, and the water itself, of course, you could always wear a lingerie inspired swimsuit, some of which are devastatingly sensuous and make every body appear as mirages of the best kind…

Yes, the warmer months are upon us, and I, for one, am so anxious to shed the winter, once and for all; to dive into the excitement of the season, and, to inspire at every point imaginable, for this is what keeps love and relationships alive and bonded. Sharing such times is romantic, stirring, encompassing, and, ever lasting, for the memories will surely be worth the effort, every single time…

SO ARE YOU SEXY???

Are you sexy? Do you need someone to affirm your sexiness? Are you naturally sexy, or did you develop your sexuality? Do you care if you are sexy? Do you care if others view you as sexy? To what lengths would you go to be perceived as sexy?

Below are the most basic definitions of sexy. I say basic because sexiness is birthed from deep within and when it is developed it becomes more than definition could pay homage to. It takes on a force and life of its own, and, becomes an unconscious part of you, which means that you never have to think about it, it just is…

Arousing erotic desire: desirable.

Suggesting sexuality: sensual, sexual, suggestive, voluptuous.

Of, concerning, or promoting sexual love or desire: amatory, amorous, aphrodisiac, erotic, lascivious, salacious, sexual.Feeling or devoted to sexual love or desire: amative, amorous, concupiscent, erotic, lascivious, lecherous, lewd, libidinous, lustful, lusty, passionate, prurient.

Of the above descriptions of sexy, I am mostly lascivious. I say this because it has been said to me many times, and, while I did not realize what it meant, I can now see that it is true. I never set out to be sexy, I was simply given the advantage of having something within which grew into it. I never tried to develop it, it simply flowed from me. But, to be fair, I have lived a life which has had me surrounded by sexy people and lots of sexuality, so, perhaps, without realizing it, it rubbed off on me, I really don’t know, but, it is a great and empowering part of my character and being which I love…

Sexiness which is outward, is not always sexy. It might look good, but, it is like a thin golden egg shell which will shatter if tossed about, for it is hollow. So many people are outwardly sexy, and, while it serves its purpose, it cannot last for long, and, certainly will only last as long as it looks good…

Being sexy involves your personality, your mind, your heart, your soul, and, an uninhibited sense of adventure. It is knowledge of pleasure, passion, desire, and satisfying. It is knowing when, where, how, what, and why you are sexy, and, how much to be at any given time. Being sexy is a limitless supply of being desirable, enticing, and, mesmerizing without trying, it is a mysterious force, full of power and conviction. It is everything that a lover could expect and more. It is a rapture, it is a vision, it is a glimpse into paradise…

As you age, your sexiness becomes so much a part of you that you don’t know where it ends or begins. It becomes a part of your whole. For women, this is a wonderful thing to look forward to, for, it greatly enhances the aging process, if you allow it to. Sexiness should be looked upon as necessary to life, love, and, relationships. As it grows with time, it will spill over into your personality, and will be recognized by all, no matter if you are mowing the lawn, washing clothes, shopping or whatever, your sexiness will glow off you like the reflection of the moon on the Earth, and that is all good for many reasons…

LINGERIE INSPIRED FASHION FOR THE WARMER MONTHS

On the fashion front, lots of lingerie inspired clothing is going to be seen almost everywhere. From chemise styled tops and dresses, paired with leggings, to corsets and jeans, even some robe styled sheer blouses paired with pencil skirts, it is looking like a hot sexy Spring and Summer…

And, why not? Women look great in feminine styling, and, when it has the added allure of sexy, it is easy on the eyes…

Many women will feel that this is a fashion trend for the young or more perfect. Nonsense. There is something for every body, I guarantee it. Try some of the different looks on, you will see. The greatest thing about these styles is they enhance, and create curves, plus, they draw the attention from the usual problem areas. You will see…

Many of the seasons swim fashions are also lingerie styled. I have several of them myself, and, actually have chosen such styles for years, for they elongate and enhance the body. Plus, they are different from the usual bikinis. Even tankinis have taken on the lingerie appearance in many different ways…

Looking great and sexy is what it is all about. And, any fashion which is going to make sure that my curves are where they should be, as an eyed delight, I am all for it!  Spring and Summer are my favorite times of the year, and, I definitely play on that with my looks, as much as I can…

There are many options available this warm season, so, find those perfect pieces and wear them with confidence and let your beauty be center stage. You know you want to, and, with all of the offerings, just about anyone can look like she just stepped off the cover of the latest fashion page. Enjoy being the beautiful woman you are, have fun with it. The warm season is so short, and before you know it, you will be layered up again trying to keep from freezing, so, go and grab as much sexy lingerie styled clothes as you can, and, keep the season sizzling…