LINGERIE PERSPECTIVE
I am amazed at how many people are uppity about lingerie, or, shy and bashful, or misunderstanding of lingerie companies. I have been finding out more and more how uptight most people are about lingerie and it’s dealers…
Some act like lingerie is disgusting. Pleeeeaassseee, what is disgusting about a beautiful person in a gorgeous gown, or chemise? Some act like they shouldn’t let others know that they find lingerie exciting. Whyyyyyyyyyy not? Some love lingerie. but, hide their feelings about it, and, never let anyone know how much they love it, order it, or wear it. What is up with this???
Myself, I adore lingerie. There are certain lingerie styles and accessories which do not appeal to me, but, hey, that is true with everything. I love looking like a sexy and seductive woman, for that is much a part of my personality. I adore being looked upon as a temptress, as sensuous and exciting, for that is what makes a relationship healthy and strong. I love the materials, the styles, the cut, the detail, the feminine edge to the kind of lingerie which I choose; ladylike, soft, sexy, and with an impact which can take the breath from a man. It is feeling of pure pleasure to see a man enthralled with me draped in beautiful, sheer or not, glamorous materials, which flow on my body, or hug to my curves, creating a much more enticing me…
Granted, there is hard core lingerie and accessories, but, that is a personal choice, and, from a business sense, a very profitable business it is. One has the choice of finding that which is true to their nature and lifestyle. If you are opposed to the harder elements of the lingerie industry, there are plenty of options available, which cater to personalities such as yours.
Lingerie is a wonderful part of life. It enhances, it creates allure, fantasy, and brings one into touch with their ’star’ side. When you allow yourself to become a character with each lingerie ensemble, you are releasing a side of you which is carefree, confident, and bewitching. Nothing spells romance better than a couple who can share their fantasies, or act out new ones which they have devised together. Nothing keeps a couple closer than those who are open to their sensuality; it is love personified, demystified, and, fully shared, and, from my stand point, it doesn’t get much better than that…
Then, there is the attitude one has which won’t allow them to experiment with the lovely choices of lingerie because they feel that it would not look good on them. Believe me, there are so many choices, that you will find plenty which will look great on you, and, age is no factor either, for you can find exquisite full coverage, if you feel that is the case. Besides that, your partner has already seen you as you are, but, have they seen you as a dramatic and devastating tease? You see what I mean?
Yes, lingerie is essential for many reasons, and, it is nothing to hide from. It is the silver lining in the black cloud of stagnation in a relationship. It is the spark of fire which keeps the love alive. It is the stuff which dreams are made of, and, of which dreams are kept alive. Lingerie is a statement of that which needs not be spoken, instead enjoyed by all involved…
February 13th, 2008 at 12:51 am
I too love lingerie. It’s that xtra little something to keep the romance alive. Great article Lynda, I love your column.
February 13th, 2008 at 9:03 am
Thank you Sarah, I appreciate the visit and the kind words so much… Lingerie is just the best way to express what longs to be heard, seen, or felt… Happy Valentine’s Day to you, and, keep it sexy… :))
February 17th, 2008 at 11:24 am
Awesome article! Lingerie helps you bring out the sensual and exciting part of yourself.
From flirty to seductive…there are so many choices! What’s not to love about lingerie?!
February 17th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Thank you Fedali, yes, you are right, what is not to love about lingerie? Thank you for the visit and the kind comment, I do appreciate the feedback… :)))
February 27th, 2008 at 9:26 pm
The strange part that I fail to understand is that why should lingerie be seen with disgust. It is something that brings out the essence of femininity.
February 28th, 2008 at 10:51 am
absolutely perfect article. The kind of thing that needs to be said over and over again. I wish I would have realized a long time ago that I had nothing to be ashamed of because I loved lingerie. Luckily my husband appreciates it. He is awesome. Now we have no problem talking about it with girlfriends or anyone else.
February 28th, 2008 at 9:52 pm
I like the blog and love lingerie, I’ll work on another post for you soon
March 15th, 2008 at 12:47 pm
Samantha, I agree, but, people are funny about such things, even though they too, are wearing or buying lingerie, it is like, supposed to be hush-hush or something, I just don’t know what it is. I was shocked to find out how many people thought that my involvement in distributing lingerie was rather over the top… hahaha, I just laugh at them, and ask if they wear or buy it. What you gonna do? Just do what you do and ignore the others… funny stuff… thanks for the visit, I appreciate it much… :)))
March 15th, 2008 at 12:49 pm
Danni, I am glad you got past that initial embarrassment too, now, you can expand your horizons with the help of lingerie, and, that will make the bond of love all the greater… Awesome name you have, I love it! Thanks for the visit, I do appreciate it and the comment… take care… :)))
March 15th, 2008 at 12:50 pm
Tiffany, thank you for the visit, glad you enjoyed it… take care and :))))
July 8th, 2008 at 9:20 pm
In some parts of the globe, lingerie is associated to sex, therefore it is considered to be a taboo - hence, people especially women, do not really flaunt and announce to each other that they plan or have bought a beautiful piece of lingerie. So sad, but its a fact that is still happening.