UNDERSTANDING = A MEASURE OF SUCCESS, EVEN IN LOVE *PART TWO*

It is people who make love seem to go bad, or make it bad. When people become settled, besides fear, they get bored. Not a good thing, especially if you have found love. If you love someone and you are friends with this person as well, how could you be bored? Now, the worst part about a partner becoming bored, is that they often don’t share that feeling, and, they believe that the other person is responsible for their happiness… Grow up.! No one in the world is responsible for your happiness besides yourself! If you expect your partner to make sure you are always happy and never bored, you need to really do some soul searching, for we are each responsible for our own condition of life…

Blame, guilt, fear, boredom, shame, and, a few other negatives are the reason relationships fail. These create need for outside stimuli, which is against the very nature of love. Love is a pact between two and should be honored, respected, nurtured, and revered as the perfect creation it is. When you begin to feel negativity, communication is the fastest alternative, you must be mature enough to discuss anything and everything. It is the fair, and the right thing to do. That way, both partners know what they are up against. There is nothing worse than being the partner in a relationship who is not aware of what is going on, what is wrong, or what could potentially tear the relationship apart. Again, I say, it is not fair, which is why communication in all forms is imperative to keeping love flourishing…

One thing about love which many do not grasp is that it is a power which can take you to the Universe, but, if it is mishandled by immature actions, it can plummet with the soul to the bowels of hell. When you decide to commit to someone, be mature in that decision and the responsibility which comes with it. Think of it as you would raising a child, for indeed, even more than that kind of commitment and responsibility and unconditional love is required between two who delve into the mysterious and all encompassing waters of love. Learn to remind yourself that you think not for yourself, but, for another as well. Your mindset and actions, whatever the consequences, fully affect the other half of your soul, which is indeed, your partner…

Understanding the intricacies of love takes time, but, another persons life and happiness is at stake as well as your own, so, it is best to understand the essential foundation of love, and from that stance, go with the natural flow of it. Face each phase, level, lesson, and, growth as a couple, not one against the other, and, otherwise, relax and accept that you are in love, that you might experience its full impact in such a way that there is no need to become stressed by it in any way… Love is a hell of a ride, brace yourself, hang on, and enjoy it, it is like a gift from the Heavens for two to share….