UNDERSTANDING = A MEASURE OF SUCCESS, EVEN IN LOVE~~~

One of the key factors to a successful relationship is to understand love. Love is more than a feeling, love is a state of the soul. Love is the essence of melding two souls as one, although, that does not indicate a loss of individuality, which is an important thing to remember. Love is a rope, a bond, an anchor, a secure hold in the course of life: it is the trust between two that each can rely on the other for support, friendship, truth, caring, sharing, and mutual life experiences. Love is the unknown origin of an essence of emotion which is never fully tapped no matter how hard we try. Love does not go wrong, the people within loves vastness go wrong, for whatever reason. Love does not include negativity, people create it. Love is a great and endless source of all which is good; if love seems to have disappointed us, it is important to remember that love cannot do such a thing, it is the people in love who do so…

Love includes a mass of emotions. Desire, passion, breathlessness, a sense of mindlessness, fantasy, ecstasy, euphoria of an unexplainable kind, a kind of mental and physical surrender, a childlike fascination with the experience and the person we are experiencing it with, a high like nothing else, and, a need such as we might never feel again… Love will consume you like a black hole. You will be vacuumed into its vastness without warning or understanding. It will render you weak, giddy, afraid, yet, longing for more and more. Love takes us on one hell of a ride, and, if we do not over analyze that rush filled ride, it will be the most wonderful experience you will ever have…

So, here we are in this state of love, then, time settles us down a bit. Some become alarmed at this time; they are fearful that surely it is dying. Take it easy, love is growing, it has become a part of you. Don’t worry, for it is fear, such as in any other part of life, which creates problems, like doubt. Fear breeds negativity, and negativity in the mind breeds a whole different perspective, which is all against the very flow of love…

Part Two coming Wednesday, stay tuned for more…