Make It Happen & Happen
If you want to keep your mans interest, there are many ways to go. It takes some effort, practice, and, creativity to keep it going and growing, but, you can do it…
There is one thing I know. Men like sexy women. It doesn’t matter if you are gorgeous or not, that really is not what sexy is about. Sexy is an attitude, a confidence, an aura of dreamy playfulness…
A sexy woman can be one of the guys, one of the girls, or just a smoldering kitten. There are as many kinds of sexy as there are men who want sexy women. What works for you might not work for me, so, you need to study your persona from inside to outside. You need to decide what kind of sexiness is your brand of sexy…
Role playing is part of being sexy. It doesn’t even have to be obvious role playing, it can be as subtle as your breath, but, that will take some getting used to… Obvious role playing such as dressing in a costume or lingerie, will also take some getting used to, but, if you practice for a while in private, when you finally spring it on him, it will be great…
I recommend watching old movies of the sexy divas from back when. Study their mannerisms, their expressions and movements. I also recommend watching stripper videos, or pole dancing videos, or simply dance instruction videos. Practice them for a while, develop some grace and sultry movements. Get into it, feel it, and, it will become a part of you… Just keep it real for you, that is, use that which you feel will work good with your personality and body. If you go beyond that, it won’t be as effective, for you are not copying, instead you are borrowing that which will enhance what you are and have…
Start out with a little surprise, such as one night after dinner, suddenly appear looking like a dream come true. Find that perfect outfit, costume, or lingerie, and, dress it up to the nines. Bring him his favorite beverage, then fall into whatever act you have devised, all the while kind of being elusive, keeping him at bay so to speak…
Get into it. Don’t even look his way until you are into it, then, ever so sweetly, look deep into his eyes, and, you will see the pleased surprise in them. If you are dancing for him, keep it going for a while, then, perhaps you can coax him to join, although, few will. They would rather watch. Make the rhythm come to life via your body. Use the language only men really understand and crave. Be the fantasy he has always had…
There is so much more to tell. There is abundant information to being sexy, though not all of it is easily spoken of. It is like subliminal in its life, and, once you find it, you will see that it takes on a life of its own, and, I am willing to bet that you will like it as much as he does, if not more; there is something about being a sexy woman which empowers you, him, and your relationship. Never underestimate the power of being sexy, it can give you an extra 10 or more years of wonderful romance…
