WHAT DETERMINES SEXY?

Every single person would probably have a different ideal of what sexy is. Most would say that sexiness is an external attribute, and, while that is appealing, that is not where sexiness derives from.

I believe that external sexiness is useful for sure, but, it is temporary gratification. There are certainly, people who are internally and externally sexy, which is amazing. For the most part, people are either internally or externally sexy.

Internal sexiness is what it is all about. Some of us are born with this quality, others have to develop it. I feel certain that it lives within each person, but, that it is stifled for some reason, perhaps due to conditioning, or to lack of interest in this area. However, if you are internally sexy, that is a great advantage in the realm of relationships and love, for it makes the effort of keeping a partner intrigued and interested, all the easier…

What is internal sexiness? Good question. It is the nature of sensuality in a persona. It is the quiet storm. It is the flint which causes sparks without much effort. It is a confidence of being attractive, seductive, and, prowess of captivation. It is a smooth assurance, a strong presence, and, a lingering effectiveness….

A person who is sexy from within leaves a trail of mystique, an air of desire, a motivation to acquire, and, a taste of satisfaction where ever they go. They do not have to try, it is a honed essence of their being, and, some of them aren’t even aware of its presence in their being. But, those who are aware of it, can further develop it to the point of being devastatingly sexy. Looks, of course, help, but, really play no role in sexiness from the internal being. There have been many not so attractive people in appearance who were devastating in their sexiness…

Sexy is an attitude of allure, a mesh net of seductiveness, a brick wall of compelling personality. It is an air of can do, will do, and leaves you wanting more…

Yes, by all means, use your external being to provoke sexiness. Dress it in lingerie, certain fashions, accessorize it, and, make it unforgettable, but, at the same time embrace that inner sexy; use it to your greatest measure, it will be much to your advantage, leaving others to wonder just what it is that you possess which leaves them so curious, with a feeling of being defeated, and, uncontrollably wishing for more…